If you want to make your child independent and confident, follow these steps :
1 Don’t feed your child let him eat by himself. If they starve, they will develop a sense of hunger.
2. Let he decide how much food she wants to eat. That will develop a sense of satiety and will avid over-eating.
3 Let them wear their clothes on their own. You may help by suggesting if needed.
4 Let them decide which color of things they want. This helps them develop decision making power.
5 Let them pack their school bag if they forget anything let them face situation so from very young age they become responsible.
6 In school , if they have not completed their homework, please do not call other parents. Instead tell your child to work it with friends or teachers.
7 Never ever sit with your child when he is doing homework . Ask the child to ask for help if needed. That will develop confidence.
8 Whenever you make monthly budget or taxes, involve your child. Discuss your income and expense and the need to save.
9. Let them make their own decisions in set boundary , it develops freedom.
10. Allow them a chance to voice their opinion on weighty matters. They will develop their sense of reasoning.