From a friend
If you want to make your child independent and confident, follow these steps :
1 Don’t feed your child let him eat by himself. If they starve, they will develop a sense of hunger.
2. Let he decide how much food she wants to eat. That will develop a sense of satiety and will avid over-eating.
3 Let them wear their clothes on their own. You may help by suggesting if needed.
4 Let them decide which color of things they want. This helps them develop decision making power.
5 Let them pack their school bag if they forget anything let them face situation so from very young age they become responsible.
6 In school , if they have not completed their homework, please do not call other parents. Instead tell your child to work it with friends or teachers.
7 Never ever sit with your child when he is doing homework . Ask the child to ask for help if needed. That will develop confidence.
8 Whenever you make monthly budget or taxes, involve your child. Discuss your income and expense and the need to save.
9. Let them make their own decisions in set boundary , it develops freedom.
10. Allow them a chance to voice their opinion on weighty matters. They will develop their sense of reasoning.
Whenever your children are out of control, you can take comfort from the thought that even God’s omnipotence did not extend to His own children.
After creating heaven and earth, God created Adam and Eve.
And the first thing he said was ‘DON’T! ‘
‘Don’t what ?’ Adam replied.
‘Don’t eat the forbidden fruit.’ God said.
‘Forbidden fruit? We have forbidden fruit? Hey Eve..we have forbidden fruit!’
‘ No Way ! ‘
‘Yes way! ‘
‘Do NOT eat the fruit! ‘ said God.
‘Because I am your Father and I said so ! ‘ God replied, wondering why He hadn’t stopped creation after making the elephants.
A few minutes later, God saw His children having an apple break and He was ticked !
‘Didn’t I tell you not to eat the fruit? ‘ God asked.
‘Uh huh,’ Adam replied.
‘Then why did you? ‘ said the Father.
‘I don’t know,’ said Eve.
‘She started it! ‘ Adam said.
‘Did not ! ‘
‘Did too! ‘
‘DID NOT! ‘
Having had it with the two of them, God’s punishment was that Adam and Eve should have children of their own.
Thus the pattern was set and it has never changed.
If you have persistently and lovingly tried to give children wisdom and they haven’t taken it, don’t be hard on yourself.
If God had trouble raising children, what makes you think it would be a piece of cake for you ?
THINGS TO THINK ABOUT !
1. You spend the first two years of their life teaching them to walk and talk. Then you spend the next sixteen telling them to sit down and shut up.
2. Grandchildren are God’s reward for not killing your own children.
3. Mothers of teens now know why some animals eat their young.
4. Children seldom misquote you. In fact, they usually repeat word for word what you shouldn’t have said.
5. The main purpose of holding children’s parties is to remind yourself that there are children more awful than your own.
6. We childproofed our homes, but they are still getting in.
ADVICE FOR THE DAY:
Be nice to your kids..
They will choose your nursing home one day!
There are small variations in the way yogis do this sequence, but the most important thing is the synchronization of the motion of your breath with the movement of your body. Basically, all upward movements are coupled with inhalation, and downward movements with exhalation.
Swan dive into a standing forward bend, exhaling through your nose and placing your hands on your legs as close to your feet as you can. Bend your knees a little if your hamstrings are tight, to protect your back.
Exhale and step, or lightly hop, your feet behind you to get into a Plank pose, arms straight underneath your shoulders and legs straight behind you. Your back should be flat and your core engaged. Hold for a second, then, in a snake-like movement, lower yourself towards the floor. Then lower your chest and chin to the floor, keeping your elbows close to the sides of your ribcage, and flatten your feet to the floor.
Inhale as you push down with your arms and raise your head, shoulders and upper body as far as you can without straining. This is the Cobra pose. Look upwards, roll shoulders back and down and keep elbows in. Firm up your kneecaps and thighs to prevent them lifting off the mat.
Exhale into Downward Facing Dog; walk hands forward and slightly farther apart than shoulder width, and spread fingers wide for stability. Then curl toes under and press your hips upwards so your body is in the shape of a triangle, with your bottom as the apex. Make sure your neck and shoulders are released and relaxed. If your hamstrings are tight, keep your knees slightly bent. Take five deep breaths.
Lower arms into original standing pose.
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